Formatted Contents Note: Engagement etiquette -- The big decisions : turning dreams into reality -- Expenses and other practicalities -- What's a groom to do? -- Attendants -- Family, friends, and a carefully planned guest list -- Invitation etiquette -- Gifts of love -- The new wedding helper : technology -- Wedding celebrations -- Planning the ceremony -- Multicultural weddings -- Encore weddings -- Wedding attire -- Planning the reception -- Flowers for your wedding -- Let there be music! -- Photography and videography -- The wedding cake -- At the ceremony -- At the reception -- After the wedding : from this day forward.